Whats a Mama Group you might ask?????
Well for me its a bunch of Mama's (prerequisite to have a child in your life, grown children included) and be willing to share the good and the bad. For some this last part is a challenge, there are lots of photos of perfectly decorated home made birthday cakes or clean kitchens but the mess of our lives that it takes to get us there is one that Is not often shared.
My mama group is like a box of chocolates, some filled with sweet cream and others dark and a little bit crispy. I love it that way, the little quirks you find when you sweep off the dust from the surface, the inside jokes, the support and most of all the laughs.
In this time of uncertainty there has been a constant for me, my family and my mama groups! I have a few.... there are the mums that have kids around the same age/ gender/ interests, with these I get to whine, share photos and laugh at daily goings on that others could not relate to or would not think are that funny.
I also have the 'old' friend mamas group which is as the name would suggest 'old' friends, not OLD lady friends more like long term car park friends. These friends may have older/ younger kids, babies, adult children but we have one thing in common, we all care for each other (some more then others...hahahahhhahahhaha).
These mums provide that support that reflects on you as a real person along with you as a mum, they remember you before you were a mama, when you still had a personality.
Sorry, I mean a personality that is not impacted that much by real life!, your still living in that world where you might move overseas for a year for some adventure, or you might have a savings account for a rainy day!
These mums get it when you make dramatic threats about what you will do to your husband or kids if they don't *take the rubbish out *put their dirty clothes in the hamper *dishes in the sink and they know you will get over it within the next few minutes. They also don't usually bring up any outbursts you have had recently unless you do,,,, normally to apologise.
Well these are the groups of women that have made my isolation experience (and my life in general) more!
More!, more what?
More Fun
More Exciting
More Emotional
More understanding
More reasonable
More supportive
More motivated
My life is so much richer from having these amazing women in it, I know how much I have learnt from each and every one of them. I hope you have a mama group to support you!
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